How to get rid of jealousy
This article is about jealousy. In this article, we will see how to get rid of jealousy.
Nowadays people are becoming jealous of each other like never before. First people strive to achieve material well-being. Once they achieve that then they have to cope with the people who are jealous of their success. In most of the cases, the latter is harder. I am sure that a lot of people can relate with this.
When I was very young, saying something like I am jealous of someone or I want to seek revenge was a taboo for me. This is not because someone gave a morality lesson. It was a natural understanding within me that all these things are bad. Don’t worry I will not teach you morality. Let’s find out how to get rid of jealousy?
It is not about morality
Let me tell you something about myself. I have no moralities or moral values. For me, there is nothing like good or bad. This is because I see life in a completely different way.
People who give moral lessons teach something like killing someone is bad, stealing is bad etc.
I want you to imagine a situation where some gangster points a gun towards your mother’s head. He wants to kill your mother, not because he wants to steal something from her. He hates your mother so he wants to kill her. You have a gun in your hand and the only way to save your mother is by shooting him.
I am pretty sure that every one of us will choose to shoot the gangster. We will not think that it is bad to shoot or kill someone.
We must analyze the situation well and accordingly take the appropriate steps. The person who sees life in terms of appropriateness and inappropriateness instead of good or bad doesn’t need any moral lessons. He/she is the one who will take the best and effective decisions. Think about it. You might be thinking how all this is related to our topic how to get rid of jealousy?
I am telling you this because I will not teach you morality in this article. I want you to become appropriate.
Jealousy among people is rising
Nowadays it is very common among people to become jealous of each other. People are jealous of their ex when they see them with someone else. They hate it when someone successfully does something in their life. Whenever someone achieves material success then people look at that person whilst holding jealousy in their heart.
All this is very unfortunate. A few days ago I tweeted, ‘How can a human being enjoy someone else’s suffering? Some people are still animals they are yet to evolve as humans’.
I tweeted this early morning. One of my friends replied that ’Very early morning I don’t know how you write these quotations … but for me, I will only say these quotations when I am drunk’.
I can’t even imagine enjoying someone else’s pain. So it was little disturbing for me to see someone else doing this. So how to get rid of jealousy? What can be done about it? Let’s find out.
There are only two types of people
There are only two types of people – those who follow the crowd blindly, and those who work sensibly. The real question is, do you want to have what others have or do you want what you need?
Nowadays when something good happens in people’s life then they become euphoric and they start dancing. On the other hand, when something bad happens then they become melancholy. This is because they are not losing or winning whilst striving to achieve something. They are winning the lottery. We all know by experience that we cannot win the lottery again and again. You might be thinking why I am talking about the lottery? Let me tell you the reason.
How to get rid of jealousy?
Nowadays people are not acting sensibly. What other people own is none of your business. We must only see what we want for ourself. Just look what all things you need in your life which will make it complete and fulfilled. After that strive to achieve that. Start working for it. Forget about what others are doing. It is not your business.
The deciding factor
No one in this world achieved great heights in his/her life just by dreaming about it. They worked on themselves and tried to increase their competence. Just by making our desires big and lavish we shall not achieve anything. Only by increasing our competence level we will perform better and do great in our life.
Jealousy, insecurity etc are for those who don’t know what they want to do in their life. They are confused human beings who are simply wandering and wasting their time. Don’t be like them.
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