Infatuation vs love…Who is the loser…?
What is infatuation? Infatuation means you are having some feelings or emotions for some person but for a very short span of time. The real question is why people are not able to distinguish between real love and infatuation? In this article, we will find out the answer.
Why this much ambiguity?
Let’s try to analyze the situation. What is the real problem? Why are people so much confused? To find answers we have to do some scrutinizing. Are you ready?
People are developing feelings for someone knowing that their feelings will not last. WHY? Nowadays you will see a lot of people who are in relationships. Most of them don’t even know why the hell they are together. I know love cannot be explained logically. One day a lady tried to tell me this. I was talking to my brother about LuvLeela.com then suddenly his neighbor came and asked what you guys are talking about? So I told her about my site. She replied how you can teach anyone about love? One plus one is not equal to two in love. I said I know one plus one is equal to one million. We had a long conversation but for the sake of this article, I will not go on that.
So coming back to the topic, when I say most of the couples don’t know why they are together then I mean that their relationship doesn’t mean anything to them. It is not only in relationships in other aspects of life people are doing things which doesn’t mean anything to them. For example, most of the people are doing the job which they don’t like.
Don’t you think it is senseless to do something which doesn’t mean anything to you? There are a lot of people who are simply lying to themselves. You can lie to someone. It is not the best thing to do but at least it is justified. But lying to ourselves doesn’t make any sense. Definitely, it is not the smart thing to do.
A lot of cars in front of my house…
When I was in my third grade something happened with me. I still remember that day vividly. I lot of cars were parked in front of my house. I saw them when I was returning from school. I still remember that day because it made me think about life.
I saw all the furniture of my house was out. All my relatives were present. When I entered the house I saw my grandfather lying on the floor. His nostrils were sealed with cotton. It took me a while to understand that he is dead as I was very young at that time. All my relatives along with my grandmother and father were crying.
You might be thinking why I am telling you all this? How is it related to infatuation and love? I will tell you the connection.
Blink of an eye…
It doesn’t matter what we think about ourself. All our smartness, prejudice etc will disappear in the blink of an eye. There were billions of people on this planet before us. The question is where they are right now?
In my article, I’m not good enough I explained how the fact that we all are mortal can be used in our favor. I don’t know about other parts of the world but in India when a person becomes little old (say 55-60 years), a person who a complete atheist all his/her life starts chanting mantras and worshipping God.
Most of them claim that they like worshipping, chanting mantras etc but a few years ago they were a complete atheist. Suddenly what happened to them? Let me tell you the truth. The truth is they just realize that their death is close. They are bewildered by that fact. So just to calm their mind they do all this.
Have you ever seen a person dying in the hospital by the virtue of their age? If you will see then you will find that in most of the cases there is no physical pain. They are just bewildered about what will happen to them.
Infatuation vs love
In my article, how to deal with the agony of unrequited love I said that if you are smart then you can use anything for your growth. I will say the same for death. You might be confused how all this is connected with infatuation and love? Let me tell you the connection.
To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.
– Oscar Wilde
If you will become conscious that you will also die and it can happen anytime then you will not have any time to do a thing which doesn’t mean anything to you. You will just do what is most important for you and the people around you.
Infatuation basically means you are just doing time pass with your life. If you will only do things which mean something to you then there will be no room for infatuation in your life. There will be love, devotion, compassion etc in your life. This is not about ethics. If you will just become hundred percent straight with your life then all these things will be a natural consequence.
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